Something has Changed.
The Distance 
Between You 
Has Grown, 
and 
it's Palpable.
Maybe there's been infidelity. 

Maybe there's been a life shift. 

Or maybe there's just been ... life.
    Are you feeling ...
... disconnected

... ambivalent

... unsure if it's even worth staying and fighting for

... checked out 

... resentful

... embittered

... betrayed and mistrusting

... devastated that this is what your children are seeing of Christian marriage

... like leaving isn't 'out of the question' anymore

... alone and like you're hiding it from everyone else

... pretty sure that he's feeling much the same way ...
Can I Send a Fresh Breath of Hope your way?
it's not over, it's just beginning
But, you're going to have to do things very differently
from what you've been told
this is where women Shine
when we recognize our own power, 

give ourselves permission to step into our calling, 

and take responsibility and ownership 

for the flourishing of our families 

by making the first move OURSELVES.


He may never 'do what it takes' to save or resuscitate the relationship.
But you can.
What if you could restore
Everything
introducing a process that explodes
the Gospel into your Marriage
INTRODUCING
The Romance Reset
A JOURNEY INTO THE MARRIAGE GOD IS CALLING YOU TO
What is The Romance Reset?
8 WEEKS OF THE MOST POWERFUL RELATIONSHIP TRANSFORMATION PROCESS I'VE FOUND
BECAUSE IT FOLLOWS THE LINE OF THE GOSPEL WHILE INCORPORATING HUMAN PSYCHOLOGICAL AND EMOTIONAL DESIGN - AND THE BIGGER PICTURE OF YOUR CALLING IN THE WORLD
GET READY FOR A VERY DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIP
What if your interactions with your husband were restored - or experienced for perhaps the first time ever - to a level of trust and close friendship you've only dreamed of?


What if the first moment you have a dream, a fear, a pain, or a joy, you can't wait to share it with your dearest friend - him?


What if the sounds your children hear from the kitchen are music and laughter - maybe even clumsy footsteps from dancing - instead of tense silence or raised voices?


What if you're already planning your next trip together because you can't imagine not sharing great joys and new experiences together?


What if you existed in a beautiful space of not only being united with your husband, but also fully secure and self-actualized as yourself, with your own desires and callings?


What if the man who you've come to feel you have 'nothing' in common with turns out to be fascinating, engaging - and interested in things that previously were only hobbies of yours, that you couldn't seem to drag him into caring about?


What if physical attraction and physical flirting was your daily norm, rather than wondering, 'why did I choose him again?'
and as a bonus ...
HOW ABOUT A VERY DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIP WITH ... YOURSELF?!
What if you knew your own power in an entirely new way, with a depth you didn't realize was possible, but without the 'hardness' of proving or rejecting others even as you ascend into your highest expression of yourself and your identity in God?


What if you suddenly saw the massive IMPORTANCE of yourself and your life as if a spotlight hit it, and you recognized that you are here for a WAY bigger reason than you'd been aware?


 What if you knew precisely how to return constantly to a place of peace and security within yourself, no matter what the state of your marriage, or any other relationships or factors in your life?


What if your relationship with God took off and approached a level of closeness, trust, and empowerment and affirmation from Him that you may have been craving since you were a little girl, and never known how to receive?
A Peek into our Process ...
a healing journey that lasts a lifetime
and ignites a new era in you and your relationship
WEEK 1: 
uncovering + HONORING your ideals
Recognizing the secret longings behind your marriage tensions that must be addressed for you to ever be satisfied

Understanding the role and right use of your creative power and why you are NOT stuck in your marriage - it is just BEGINNING


The process of defining your masculine ideal that will begin the profound process of falling back in love with your husband


WEEK 2: 
EXCAVATING + HEALING YOUR EXPERIENCES
Uncovering how relationships outside your marriage have been impacting it - often starting before you even met your man

Revealing your Father and Mother Stories and how it is managing your current marriage, and how to break free from these cycles

How to break the soul ties of past relationships that are consciously or unconsciously leaving open doors to struggle and sadness in your current relationship and ability to connect with your husband 
WEEK 3: 
A NEW DEPTH OF PEACE + CLOSENESS
How distancing yourself from your husband in a particular way will give you a route to become closer to him on demand, no matter what he has done or is even still doing

How to reach a deeper level of forgiveness than you ever have, and how to set yourself free in a way totally beyond forgiving 'him'

Grounding yourself in an unshakeable strength within you that will have you beyond being ever 'thrown' by what you have been or will go through again, in this relationship or life at large

WEEK 4: 
A CALLING BEYOND YOUR WILDEST DREAMS
Why God chose your husband for you and you for him - no matter what your story of getting together was

How to appreciate your husband easily (yes, really!)

The co-calling you and your husband have that will unleash you into specific ministry in the world - if you will accept it - and how you can still step into that calling even if he won't
WEEK 5: 
UNLEASHING YOUR CREATIVE POWER
Why your relationship with God is your superpower, how you may be unknowingly blocking or reducing that power - and how to unleash it

Words that are secretly killing your marriage, your thoughts about your husband, and the way he responds to you, and what to say instead

Stepping into power prayer for your marriage and creating your own 'War Room'
WEEK 6:
HOW TO CHANGE YOUR MAN
Identifying and honoring the specific ways you'd like your husband to change - how to be honest and effective with your awarenesses

How to get your husband shifting in the direction you want - without him even knowing, and in his best interests

How to bring up marriage counseling in a loving, powerful, and effective way, and avoid the deadly double standard

WEEK 7:
RECREATING THE ROMANCE + FLIRTING
How to awaken your own curiosity and interest in your husband and your desire to know him as a person

Where to begin rebuilding a friendship and easy ways to reintroduce flirting (even if you can't stand the thought right now) and having true fun together - and how to protect this time from drama

Beginning a romance with your own life so you never feel unfulfilled again, no matter what he does
WEEK 8:
REKINDLING SEX + PHYSICAL ATTRACTION
How sex fits into the picture of rebuilding your relationship in a way that feels safe, fun, and honors you

What to do when you or your husband (or both of you!) have lost physical attraction toward each other, and how to bring it back

How a discipline of celebration in your business and your life will bring joy back into every day of your marriage and your personal journey
WORDS FROM THE WOMEN (AND THEIR HUSBANDS!) WHO HAVE WORKED WITH US
"My husband and I have reconnected in so many different ways that I didn't think were possible. Tomorrow we celebrate 26 years of marriage, which have had many ups and downs. Thank GOD we chose to hold on and make things work, especially when I used to think of ways to get out. 

Coming into your program a few months ago helped change my mindset, helped me to stop playing the victim, to open my heart and truly forgive.

Thank you for being so BOLD sharing all you do to help women and to help couples." 
"Things really started to turn around. It still took time to continue the course and work on everything but it was definitely a huge win and it gave both of us the opportunity to love and be loved again, something neither of us had been able to do in a very long time. I have a renewed sense of hope that we are on a brand new path to a much better future. 

My husband’s words exactly, “completely blown away. Far exceeded any expectation that I have had for a long time. Thanks for taking those classes and reconnecting with me. I love you.” 
"I am very thankful that God led me to you. After all these years of trying to find a Christian counselor, you and group this feel right. 

Even with prayer trying to get right by myself just wasn't working.

I cannot say say how blessed I feel about having found your group. For many years I have been trying to find a Bibically based teacher and support group. And it was right on time." 
and dozens more. .. 
Ready to be next?
This is perfect for you if:
You are committed to living God's way and stepping into all that He has for you, even when it's temporarily difficult

Even though you may have been burned or disappointed, you still believe (or want to!) that God sees and cares about your pain and has your best interests at heart - you just haven't been able to figure out His design in this part of your life

You do want to save or strengthen your marriage, and you know that you may have to be the one who begins that journey alone at first

You have at least flickers of affection or concern for your husband - if some things would just shift, you could see yourself being deeply in love and feeling very close again

You have a hunch that there is a LOT more hiding beneath the struggles in this area - and maybe a whole new level of life waiting to be released in it, if you know how to navigate it correctly
This is not for you if:
You are convinced that the difficulties in your marriage are 100% your husband's fault, and believe no changes need to be made in your behavior or mindset

Are more committed to your instant gratification and justification than to the ultimate grand calling God has on your life

Feel that the Bible is a weak and out of date guide to living well and fully

Are looking for a gossip girl gang to vent and rage with, with no goal of self awareness and positive movement forward

Are looking for an excuse to sidestep your covenant and calling, and someone to applaud you ending your marriage

Feel that our primary calling as Christians is to suffer, and mediocre is as good as it gets.
My hunch is that if you're still here reading this,
this is exactly what you're looking for.
I also know that fear often disguises itself as logistical concerns, so let me answer a few questions you might have ...
What you'll receive:
A Stunning, Password-Protected Private Course Account, 
Packed with 8 Weeks of Content: 3-4 videos in every week's module, 
ranging from 10-30 minutes long each,
and Accessible from any Device
Beautiful Printable Worksheets for each week and step, 
to use as your quiet time to deepen a soul transformation 
and cement your awarenesses and results
Lifetime Access to Monthly LIVE Group Coaching Calls and their Recordings, 
where you can get any question answered, openly or anonymously,
and find a sisterhood to last a lifetime!
What's Your Learning Style?
WE COVER THEM ALL
Video Lessons
Audio Recordings
Written Worksheets
Live Coaching
Take a peek inside
FAQs
What is your background?
My greatest credentials are my results and the results of my clients in this area. Like you, I'm sure, I know many men and women with MDiv's, Masters, and PhDs in areas related to this who nevertheless have extremely dysfunctional marriages and intimate lives, and are often spreading little more than how to recreate that dysfunction, regardless of what their schooling might be. There are plenty of people with lots of letters behind their name who I would never send anyone to. 

But in a nutshell, here are the pieces of my education and experience that pertain to this teaching:

 Johns Hopkins undergraduate degree in medical writing (Writing Seminars, concentration medical and scientific writing), Phi Beta Kappa (hence the course being heavy on medical studies and diagrams about this from the scientific side!)
 Trinity School for Ministry in Ambridge, PA, to study "Sex, Gender, and the Gospel" (hence it being heavy on the theology side too :) )
 Georgetown University Masters, Communication, Culture, Technology, (where I learned how to facilitate transformation for people through online portals.)
 American Association of Christian Counselors, Life Coach
 Symbis Certified Marriage and Pre-Marriage Coaching Facilitator
 Level 1 training through the Christian Healing Ministries program 
 Love and Fidelity board member at Georgetown University (Love Saxa) - group supporting and teaching on traditional marriage
 On the Marriage Ministry board with my husband at the Falls Church Anglican for 2 years. As the 'young, relevant voice' :)
 3 years in ministry leading young women and young married couples on staff at a 4000 member church that was going through a split over the Biblical doctrine on sexuality. (The Falls Church Anglican)

How long have you been doing this?
I have been teaching about sex and marriage privately and in small groups for about 7 years. The O Class and Romance Reset debuted in 2017 after a growing sense in my spirit that God was prodding me (very firmly!) to take this message and help to a greater number of women in a more widespread way. 

I did not anticipate the massive response we have had, or how the community of women and group coaching has created a synergistic environment for women in the course to have explosive growth and so much support and encouragement in their journeys. 
So I really have lifetime access?
Absolutely! I am actually training a team to join me in this to ensure that we will be able to provide our monthly calls for the next 3-5 years minimum. Even if the calls were to cease after that, which I am committed to not letting happen because there is simply nothing else like this out there to support women and I feel that this is the main issue God has called me to address while I'm on earth, I would pay another trained counselor to take over and run the calls so that support continues. 

The course content is set up on a website and does not require ongoing maintenance from me other than occasionally adding a video on a topic the ladies have requested, so that will not be going anywhere for sure! 

How do I know this will work for me?
Even if you don’t make one single change to your relationship with yourself, your husband, or God, (which I don’t recommend, obviously!), just being aware of God’s design for sex and intimacy, and the profound Biblical basis of self actualization through letting the Gospel into your marriage can change your life. 

A perspective shift like that can’t help but be tremendously influential on your thoughts, and our thoughts about ourselves and relationships hugely affect how we behave in and toward them.

Of course, if you make no changes to the way you interact with God, yourself, and your husband, the impact of this course is going to be seriously dampened! Like anything, you will get out of this what you put in. 

But, if you watch the videos, take some quiet time each week for the personal reflection worksheets, and make the tweaks that suit your life and relationship best, chances are you will look back and be amazed by how far you’ve come and how much more joy and freedom fills your intimate life! 

If you slowly dig into these areas and work through the topics, you will see progress. And the truths you will learn will not change (because they’re Biblical!) or go away, and over the time that follows you will blossom into a vastly more joyful, hopeful, healthy, confident and powerful woman of God.

Couldn't I figure this out on my own?
I'm sure you could! But if you're anything like me, it might take you about 10 years! I think one of the reasons demand for and success rates in this program have been so high is because women have been trying to do this on their own, and it hasn't been working. 

I suggest that this lifetime course and coaching combo program is the best way to work through difficulties in this area simply because, while you can most definitely study this on your own and begin the journey yourself, it personally took me (Jackie) 10 years, whereas I am now able to help women make these shifts in about 10 weeks, or even as little as 10 days in some cases. 

Our success stories are phenomenal, and even blow me away! I personally prefer a good shortcut, but of course it's not the only way! My goal is to provide you the ongoing training, expert access, support, clarity, and encouragement to not only fast-track this process for you, but to give you an incredible sisterhood and framework for success, as well as a resource to use to inform and help others along the way.
 Can’t I just get this info from reading your blog and watching your videos?
Short and honest answer? Nope. I love giving you my thoughts, tips, and stories on my blog and on VLX TV. But the bottom line is that overhauling your intimate relationship with your husband and your relationship with God and your body is going to take a lot more than a few 1,000 word blog posts and 4 minute videos! 

My husband and I have also decided that we're just not comfortable with me talking as bluntly about the 'ins and outs' of sex (if you will ;) ) as I do in the course and with private clients, openly on the internet. So for now, these detailed tips and stories stay behind closed doors! Which also means that your questions will too. :)

There’s no way I can cover even the tip of the iceberg of these topics in the short content I share on my sites and social media – I would be spamming your Facebook newsfeed :) An online course like this allows me to do two things I can’t do any other way:

1. Give you, all in one place, the full scope of all of the critically necessary topics and aspects that are involved in overhauling your intimate life, from every angle and through multiple mediums.

2. Put all of these topics in an organized framework that will lead you through the paradigm and lifestyle shifts of this incredible life transformation in a way that is engaging, manageable, and makes sense!
Can my husband watch the trainings and participate with me?
Yes of course! He is welcome to watch all of the trainings - they are more than appropriate for a man to view or to watch together, and will likely create some interesting and productive conversations! 

He may also sit in on the monthly group coaching calls; we ask that he not make his presence known, as other women might shut down a bit knowing a man is listening. But it is more than fine for his wife to ask his questions for him and for him to view the full course and call replays!
The only question now is... 
Are you ready to change your life?
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